This isn’t my story but I wanted to share it as it made me
laugh so much at the time and is a perfect example of the kind of small
cultural differences between countries that make the experience of living in a
foreign country simultaneously baffling and hilarious.
I was on the way back from a meeting with two colleagues
today in an auto and we were talking in very general terms about certain
cultural differences between India, the UK and the US. One colleague has an
Indian friend currently studying in an American University and her friend had
called her up yesterday and was telling my colleague how much she missed home.
She said that one of the things that she found so frustrating about living in
the US was the different rules and systems to those in India and she gave an
example saying that she missed the fact that in Indian towns and cities you
would see people’s clothes hanging on the line and laid out across the roofs
and terraces of the houses and apartments. In the city in the US where she
lives there are strict rules about where you are allowed to hang out your
clothes to dry and even stricter rules about where you park your cars, leave
your rubbish and the length to which your grass is allowed to grow (not more
than 6 inches in case you were interested).
In India when any electrical item breaks or goes wrong it
would be absolutely inconceivable to simply go to the shop and replace the
broken item with a new one as there will always be a shop or a man, or a man
with a shop (a table outside the front of his home with a sign saying
‘repairs’) within a 10 meter radius of wherever you are standing that can fix
said item. When my colleague’s friend in the US’s laptop broke she took it to
the nearest computer shop and asked if they could repair it. She thought that it
had broken because some dust had gotten into the laptop and that all that
needed to be done was for the laptop to be unscrewed and the dust to be cleaned
out. The shop attendant confirmed that this was what needed to be done but said
that unfortunately he would not be able to perform the required task as he did
not have the authority or the right to unscrew the laptop. The laptop remained
unfixed and my colleague’s friend was yet again confounded by what seemed to
her to be a totally ridiculous rule and explained in frustration to my colleague, ‘It’s so
ridiculous! They don’t even have the right to screw in America!’